control freak!

Im such a control freak. I hate having people touch my things. Since i was a kid i would always rather just do everything myself than rely on others. It really is a problem. So today i am preparing to be off for two days and instead of being excited about having two wonderful days to myself i am more concerned with the fact that my unorganized, irresponsible, lazy coworker will be taking care of my work load. I know no matter how little work i leave her she will have to touch my things. Every time i return from vacation its the same thing with her. Piles of unorganized faxes on my keyboard, binders left alphabetized and work only done half way. I always spend half of my first day back FIXING what she did. I know i have to learn to let people help me out, but its really hard for me!