Thursday, March 19, 2009
Growing
I'm at a weird junction in my life. People who i always thought were my friends have grown distant, have had children, or just moved on with life. Lately being friends with people has been a lot of work. I can count on one hand the number true friends i have. Im thankful for my few close friends, but when i look back and think of how far apart i have grown from some of my closest friends it makes me sad. I know its all part of growing up, but even when i try to make plans with people they never pan out. This week it has become evident that event planning with people we thought were our friends is near impossible. So from now on i am done trying. If my 'extended' friends want to get together they can plan it. I am sick of being the one bending over backwards and trying to get everyone together. I will stick with my true best friends and be thankful that i have them.
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It does suck to start drifting away from people we used to call close friends. I guess that's one plus about high school - you had lunch dates with them every day. Now those times are few and far between.
And it sucks when the few get-togethers end up fizzing out because people don't make the effort. It's not like you ask much anymore, but when you do, it seems like a huge undertaking.
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